We found out that Paul really dislikes wet and dirty diapers, regardless of the brand. He won't sit in them for more than 5 minutes before his whimpers escalate to piercing wails that make me think that the ceiling fan must have fallen on him or that the monsters under the bed may have started water boarding my sweet baby. This means that we go through A LOT of diapers (10-14) each day. We're currently on day 5 of cloth diapering, and it has been a success so far. If we had continued with disposables, we would be out by now. We used around 200 diapers in the 3.5 weeks since his birth. That's some serious investment. I'm surprised at how quickly Paul runs through our stash of cloth diapers. I sure hope that we've got enough to last till laundry day through his potty training days.
I'll post later on about successes/failures in cloth diapering.
Saturday, July 14, 2012
Sunday, June 3, 2012
Leading music in Primary is the greatest
For the past few weeks, I have been thinking about how much I love my calling at church. I have been leading the music in Primary (my church's Sunday School for children) for nearly a year and a half. It has brought a lot of happiness into my life.
I was called to be chorister after I had been serving as a ward clerk for about four and a half years. I can honestly say I loved being a clerk---It was my favorite calling at the time. Although the outward appearance makes it look like a calling that centers on paperwork and budget tracking, I had discovered that clerkship has a deeply spiritual component. But eventually, I found myself longing for something different. I wanted to spend more time interacting with others and less time compiling reports.
I was kind of nervous when I learned that the new opportunity would involve teaching songs to a group of about 30 kids. I knew that most primary songs were not written with my bass voice in mind. I knew that teaching the music would usually require singing the songs by myself in front of the kids and their primary teachers; although I have a decent amount of musical talent, I have always felt very self-conscious about my voice as a solo instrument. But I was excited to try this new calling.
And I LOVED it. I honestly believe I have the best calling in the church, and I kind of hope I get to be primary chorister for a good 10 years or so.
Here are 10 reasons why I love being Primary Chorister:
1. Every week, at least one or two kids will say something wildly hilarious. It brightens my week and gives me something to look forward to. Every week after church, I spend a while telling Becky the fun stories.
2. It has expanded my artistic abilities. I'm not a big fan of downloadable cookie cutter song helps, partly because I balk at the price of printer ink, so I draw most of the posters I use to help the children learn the songs. It's fun and effective, I think.
3. I love seeing the children learn the gospel. When I teach them songs, I strive to take at least some time to define the words in the song and testify of the gospel principles taught in the songs. It's great to see the music help the gospel come to life for them. Also, I get to observe the way they live the gospel, and hear them give talks. It gives me hope for the rising generation. These are good kids!
4. I love interacting with the children. Partly because I have several younger siblings and lots of younger cousins, I've always been comfortable to talking to kids. When I served a mission, I taught many more children than adults. Their innocence and faith is inspiring. This calling is a nice continuation that keeps me young. I think it also helps prepare me for raising my own children.
5. This calling has expanded my musical abilities. I am much more comfortable singing in front of people.
6. I feel like I can (and should strive to be) a role model for the children I teach. I want to set a positive example for them and therefore help reinforce what their parents teach them.
7. The children help me realize more about what Christ meant when he commanded us to be like children. Many of them exemplify unconditional love for each other and for other people. I remember one time that an elderly woman from a different ward, whom no one in the room knew, came and just sat in the back of the primary room. When one of the primary leaders acknowledged her and said hello, a 3-year-old girl on the front row jumped up, ran to the back, and hugged the woman. Shouldn't we all be more like her?
8. My teaching abilities have increased. If I am ever called to teach a group of adults, I think I will be much better for them than if I had not been called to teach children.
9. In what other calling do you get to dance the robot, pretend to be a snowman, make children laugh, pretend to make popcorn balls, and sing "Head, Shoulders, Knees and Toes" backwards at lightning speed?
10. Every now and then, there's food. One of the primary teachers makes some great cookies and cake pops for her class, and occasionally I get some leftovers. MMMMMmmm good.
I was called to be chorister after I had been serving as a ward clerk for about four and a half years. I can honestly say I loved being a clerk---It was my favorite calling at the time. Although the outward appearance makes it look like a calling that centers on paperwork and budget tracking, I had discovered that clerkship has a deeply spiritual component. But eventually, I found myself longing for something different. I wanted to spend more time interacting with others and less time compiling reports.
I was kind of nervous when I learned that the new opportunity would involve teaching songs to a group of about 30 kids. I knew that most primary songs were not written with my bass voice in mind. I knew that teaching the music would usually require singing the songs by myself in front of the kids and their primary teachers; although I have a decent amount of musical talent, I have always felt very self-conscious about my voice as a solo instrument. But I was excited to try this new calling.
And I LOVED it. I honestly believe I have the best calling in the church, and I kind of hope I get to be primary chorister for a good 10 years or so.
Here are 10 reasons why I love being Primary Chorister:
1. Every week, at least one or two kids will say something wildly hilarious. It brightens my week and gives me something to look forward to. Every week after church, I spend a while telling Becky the fun stories.
2. It has expanded my artistic abilities. I'm not a big fan of downloadable cookie cutter song helps, partly because I balk at the price of printer ink, so I draw most of the posters I use to help the children learn the songs. It's fun and effective, I think.
3. I love seeing the children learn the gospel. When I teach them songs, I strive to take at least some time to define the words in the song and testify of the gospel principles taught in the songs. It's great to see the music help the gospel come to life for them. Also, I get to observe the way they live the gospel, and hear them give talks. It gives me hope for the rising generation. These are good kids!
4. I love interacting with the children. Partly because I have several younger siblings and lots of younger cousins, I've always been comfortable to talking to kids. When I served a mission, I taught many more children than adults. Their innocence and faith is inspiring. This calling is a nice continuation that keeps me young. I think it also helps prepare me for raising my own children.
5. This calling has expanded my musical abilities. I am much more comfortable singing in front of people.
6. I feel like I can (and should strive to be) a role model for the children I teach. I want to set a positive example for them and therefore help reinforce what their parents teach them.
7. The children help me realize more about what Christ meant when he commanded us to be like children. Many of them exemplify unconditional love for each other and for other people. I remember one time that an elderly woman from a different ward, whom no one in the room knew, came and just sat in the back of the primary room. When one of the primary leaders acknowledged her and said hello, a 3-year-old girl on the front row jumped up, ran to the back, and hugged the woman. Shouldn't we all be more like her?
8. My teaching abilities have increased. If I am ever called to teach a group of adults, I think I will be much better for them than if I had not been called to teach children.
9. In what other calling do you get to dance the robot, pretend to be a snowman, make children laugh, pretend to make popcorn balls, and sing "Head, Shoulders, Knees and Toes" backwards at lightning speed?
10. Every now and then, there's food. One of the primary teachers makes some great cookies and cake pops for her class, and occasionally I get some leftovers. MMMMMmmm good.
Friday, May 4, 2012
Why I want to try cloth diapering
For anyone curious why I am interested in using cloth diapers with the little one on his way, let me expound. The only experience I have personally had so far with cloth diapers is with the rectangular prefolds, rubber pants, diaper pins, and swishing dirty diapers in the toilet 20+ years ago. That didn't make cloth diapering seem very appealing, so when several of my friends said that they were using cloth diapers, I wondered why anyone would want to put themselves through that torture.
Fortunately, my cloth-diapering friends appreciate cloth diapers enough to explain the advances that have been made in the last 20 years in cloth diapering, and there is plenty of information about cloth diapers in the blogosphere. After reading up entirely too much on the subject, I've decided to write up a list on why I want to give the new-style ones a try.
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| Cloth diapers as I remember them- Not as easy as disposables. |
Fortunately, my cloth-diapering friends appreciate cloth diapers enough to explain the advances that have been made in the last 20 years in cloth diapering, and there is plenty of information about cloth diapers in the blogosphere. After reading up entirely too much on the subject, I've decided to write up a list on why I want to give the new-style ones a try.
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| The cloth diapers that have been developed lately can be almost as easy as disposables. |
- Economy: They're cheaper than disposables, even when accounting for the cost of laundering-- especially considering that you can either use them with a second child, or pass them on to another new mom.
- They're cute! I know that some disposable diapers have designs on the front, but none can compare with the cute colors and patterns of cloth.
Some of my favorite cloth diaper colors- even cuter than disposables, too! (click the image to see a closeup of my favorite pattern) - Fewer blowouts: Face it... if you would have to wash an adorable outfit from a disposable-diaper blowout, why not just wash a cloth diaper, and be done with it. When I first read about cloth diapers having fewer blowouts (0-1/month instead of 4/week), I thought that it was because these cloth diapering moms were biased, so I mentioned it to my mom, who dealt with plenty of both cloth and disposable diapers. She emphatically agreed that cloth diapers contain blowouts much better than disposables.
- We don't have to upgrade our trash pickup. Right now, we hardly generate any garbage (we've been averaging ~32 gal/mo), so the monthly bill is almost nothing. Many people also cite the many environmental benefits of cloth diapering. That should probably be one of my reasons, too-- but sometimes, even more than saving the planet, I like saving the wallet.
- Quicker potty training: Since baby feels the natural consequences of wetting himself, he can't go all day without a change and still be comfortable in a cloth diaper (although some may consider this a negative aspect of cloth diapering).
- Fewer emergency runs to the grocery store. I might have to run the wash at an inconvenient time, but at least I won't have to make an emergency grocery store run just for diapers.
That about covers the reasons for now. More updates will come as we have real experiences with cloth diapers.
Sunday, March 11, 2012
In defense of daylight savings time
The thing I like least about Daylight Savings Time is that I always worry about what time I will get up the morning that the time changes. Since the only alarm clock I have is my cell phone, I wonder: Will the phone actually change time automatically at the appointed hour? What if there is some glitch that keeps it from changing, and then I sleep in an extra hour?
But very close to this worry, my biggest pet peeve about Daylight Savings Time is this:
You may have seen this brilliant meme:
[caption id="" align="alignnone" width="500" caption="Count Rugan, fictional inventor of Daylight Savings Time"]
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Facebook has facilitated the process of hating on DST by allowing memes like this to spread quickly. A year or two ago, I saw one with a picture of a Native American proclaiming that only the government would cut a foot off of one end of a rope, attach it to the other end, and think that the rope is longer.
It seems like lots of people look for, find, and take opportunities to make Daylight Savings time sound like a stupid waste of time.
I am writing today to defend Daylight Savings Time. Sure, hating it is pretty popular, and it is not perfect, but I have come to the conclusion that it actually makes sense.
Here is why: throughout the year, the earth's tilt, revolution on its axis, and orbit around the sun combine to make pretty big changes in the moments the sun rises and sets in different parts of the year, and the amount of time your particular corner of the earth is bathed in sunlight. But, being creatures of habit who have semi-regular work schedules, it is hard to take advantage of the extra sunlight in the summer. Unless we decided to suddenly start getting up earlier during the summer, we'd waste a lot of daylight before we even get up in the morning.
Therefore, we have Daylight Savings Time. (It inconveniences us two days a year---actually the inconvenience isn't that terrible since our electronics change our clocks for us!) Therefore, without having to change our sleep and work schedules, the hours that the sun is in the sky coincide better with the hours that we are awake, and we have more sunlight after we get off work in the evening.
Example: Let's say you get up at 6 a.m. and go to bed at 11 p.m. If the sun rises at 5 a.m. and sets at 8 p.m., then an hour of sunlight is gone by the time you woke. And then you get home from work at 6 p.m., and two hours later, there is no more sun. That gives you only two hours to work in the garden, take your kids to the park, ride a bike, or test the latest solar-powered invention you're working on.
But let's say we take one hour from one night when clocks spring forward. Suddenly, you and the sun both get up at the same time---you can enjoy every single moment of sunshine (except for those eight hours you are trapped in the office...). When you get home at 6 p.m., you have three hours to experience the sunshine before it sets.
I don't know whether the hours I cited above bear any resemblance to real life, but they illustrate the principle.
The next time you feel the urge to cry out against Daylight Savings Time sucking away an hour of your life, please remember two things:
1. My argument above, and
2. That hour will be given back to you later this year, when everything falls back into place.
But very close to this worry, my biggest pet peeve about Daylight Savings Time is this:
Lots of people love to hate on Daylight Savings Time.
You may have seen this brilliant meme:
[caption id="" align="alignnone" width="500" caption="Count Rugan, fictional inventor of Daylight Savings Time"]
[/caption]Facebook has facilitated the process of hating on DST by allowing memes like this to spread quickly. A year or two ago, I saw one with a picture of a Native American proclaiming that only the government would cut a foot off of one end of a rope, attach it to the other end, and think that the rope is longer.
It seems like lots of people look for, find, and take opportunities to make Daylight Savings time sound like a stupid waste of time.
I am writing today to defend Daylight Savings Time. Sure, hating it is pretty popular, and it is not perfect, but I have come to the conclusion that it actually makes sense.
Here is why: throughout the year, the earth's tilt, revolution on its axis, and orbit around the sun combine to make pretty big changes in the moments the sun rises and sets in different parts of the year, and the amount of time your particular corner of the earth is bathed in sunlight. But, being creatures of habit who have semi-regular work schedules, it is hard to take advantage of the extra sunlight in the summer. Unless we decided to suddenly start getting up earlier during the summer, we'd waste a lot of daylight before we even get up in the morning.
Therefore, we have Daylight Savings Time. (It inconveniences us two days a year---actually the inconvenience isn't that terrible since our electronics change our clocks for us!) Therefore, without having to change our sleep and work schedules, the hours that the sun is in the sky coincide better with the hours that we are awake, and we have more sunlight after we get off work in the evening.
Example: Let's say you get up at 6 a.m. and go to bed at 11 p.m. If the sun rises at 5 a.m. and sets at 8 p.m., then an hour of sunlight is gone by the time you woke. And then you get home from work at 6 p.m., and two hours later, there is no more sun. That gives you only two hours to work in the garden, take your kids to the park, ride a bike, or test the latest solar-powered invention you're working on.
But let's say we take one hour from one night when clocks spring forward. Suddenly, you and the sun both get up at the same time---you can enjoy every single moment of sunshine (except for those eight hours you are trapped in the office...). When you get home at 6 p.m., you have three hours to experience the sunshine before it sets.
I don't know whether the hours I cited above bear any resemblance to real life, but they illustrate the principle.
The next time you feel the urge to cry out against Daylight Savings Time sucking away an hour of your life, please remember two things:
1. My argument above, and
2. That hour will be given back to you later this year, when everything falls back into place.
Thursday, February 16, 2012
We bought a house (and other big news)
Our blog has remained silent for nearly a month. That's because Becky and I have been in one of the busiest months of our married life, and many more busy months on the way.
Here are a couple of things that have been keeping us joyfully busy:
I've always heard people talk about the stress of buying and moving into a house. I never believed them. Surely buying a house couldn't be that stressful! ... Now I know.
Becky first raised the idea of buying a home back when we were engaged. She pointed out that if we were going to be in Lynchburg for several more years, it would be good to start building equity in something. It made sense for other reasons, too: The apartment I had at the time would be good for us to start out in, but it would only last us so long. Finding another apartment wasn't a viable option considering that many decently sized apartments now rent for more than a house payment.
So we started looking at houses soon after our wedding.
In September, we looked at a foreclosure that seemed rather nice but needed a lot of work, and we felt they were asking way too much.
Apparently, we weren't the only ones who thought that. In late November, we learned that the price on that house had dropped tremendously. For the first time in our housing search, we became really excited about the prospect of committing to a purchase.
The weeks after that were characterized by a roller coaster of emotions, decisions, offers, negotiations, worrying, waiting, and, finally, home buying.
The house is a fixer-upper. It needs a lot of work. But it's beautiful and has a lot of potential. Since we got the contract on the house, we have met numerous people who had looked at it, loved it, considered making an offer, and consider us lucky for getting it.
Thanks to some great friends with muscles and trucks, we were able to move in just a few days after closing on the house. Two weeks later, Becky's mom drove up with Becky's piano, dining room table, and other furniture that had been stowed away in her basement. Here is a picture of the dining room:
We are grateful to be in our home, and we look forward to documenting the repairs and renovations as we complete them.
That's the other big news / announcement for the month.
The baby is due in June. I am nervous, but I'm also very excited. Back when I was single, it was no secret that I longed to find love and happiness in a relationship. But almost as heartbreaking as being single was the fact that I wanted to be a dad. I wanted to come home from work and read stories to or play games with my children. It makes me very happy to know that that dream will come true someday soon.
When Becky and I fell in love, one of the things we liked about each other was our desire to raise a family. We had some people who advised us to wait until we had been married for several years before having children. But it didn't feel right. Some people need to travel the world or something like that before having children. But to us, making a family felt like the great adventure. I'm happy to have such a beautiful and devoted wife who shares that dream with me.
We kept the pregnancy a pretty closely-guarded secret for the first few months. We told our immediate family members and a few others, on the condition that the news would not see the light of Facebook. Then we got to the point where we were ready to tell other people in person. Becky wore maternity clothes in public a few times, but no one asked about them. (She is the only woman I've ever met who was frustrated that no one assumed that she looked pregnant.)
Finally, after we got the first ultrasound and learned that the baby was a boy, we announced the news on Facebook:
So for the foreseeable future, we will be repairing a house and changing diapers. Combine that with my web design business and Becky's sewing projects and substitute teaching, and we might not blog much for the next little while, but I'll try to update at least once a month.
Here are a couple of things that have been keeping us joyfully busy:
1. We bought a house
I've always heard people talk about the stress of buying and moving into a house. I never believed them. Surely buying a house couldn't be that stressful! ... Now I know.
Becky first raised the idea of buying a home back when we were engaged. She pointed out that if we were going to be in Lynchburg for several more years, it would be good to start building equity in something. It made sense for other reasons, too: The apartment I had at the time would be good for us to start out in, but it would only last us so long. Finding another apartment wasn't a viable option considering that many decently sized apartments now rent for more than a house payment.
So we started looking at houses soon after our wedding.
In September, we looked at a foreclosure that seemed rather nice but needed a lot of work, and we felt they were asking way too much.
Apparently, we weren't the only ones who thought that. In late November, we learned that the price on that house had dropped tremendously. For the first time in our housing search, we became really excited about the prospect of committing to a purchase.
The weeks after that were characterized by a roller coaster of emotions, decisions, offers, negotiations, worrying, waiting, and, finally, home buying.
The house is a fixer-upper. It needs a lot of work. But it's beautiful and has a lot of potential. Since we got the contract on the house, we have met numerous people who had looked at it, loved it, considered making an offer, and consider us lucky for getting it.
Thanks to some great friends with muscles and trucks, we were able to move in just a few days after closing on the house. Two weeks later, Becky's mom drove up with Becky's piano, dining room table, and other furniture that had been stowed away in her basement. Here is a picture of the dining room:
We are grateful to be in our home, and we look forward to documenting the repairs and renovations as we complete them.
We're having a baby boy.
That's the other big news / announcement for the month.
The baby is due in June. I am nervous, but I'm also very excited. Back when I was single, it was no secret that I longed to find love and happiness in a relationship. But almost as heartbreaking as being single was the fact that I wanted to be a dad. I wanted to come home from work and read stories to or play games with my children. It makes me very happy to know that that dream will come true someday soon.
When Becky and I fell in love, one of the things we liked about each other was our desire to raise a family. We had some people who advised us to wait until we had been married for several years before having children. But it didn't feel right. Some people need to travel the world or something like that before having children. But to us, making a family felt like the great adventure. I'm happy to have such a beautiful and devoted wife who shares that dream with me.
We kept the pregnancy a pretty closely-guarded secret for the first few months. We told our immediate family members and a few others, on the condition that the news would not see the light of Facebook. Then we got to the point where we were ready to tell other people in person. Becky wore maternity clothes in public a few times, but no one asked about them. (She is the only woman I've ever met who was frustrated that no one assumed that she looked pregnant.)
Finally, after we got the first ultrasound and learned that the baby was a boy, we announced the news on Facebook:
So for the foreseeable future, we will be repairing a house and changing diapers. Combine that with my web design business and Becky's sewing projects and substitute teaching, and we might not blog much for the next little while, but I'll try to update at least once a month.
Wednesday, January 18, 2012
Ideas to make subbing easier
As I have returned to the world of teaching in public schools, I have found the need to re-acquaint myself in methods of classroom management... particularly to students I have never met before. To succeed in this task, I have found myself perusing dozens of substitute blogs to pick brains of other substitutes for tricks of the trade.
Some of the ideas that I'd like to try out (mostly just for elementary school) include:
Hmmmm... I can't seem to remember all of the great ideas since working through the process of setting up a blog. I'll add more to this list as time goes on.
That's all for now.
Some of the ideas that I'd like to try out (mostly just for elementary school) include:
- Reading: Story time is always a big hit.
- Selecting a nick-name for myself, such as Mrs. Science or Mrs. General or Mrs. Homework, etc.
- A time filler for working with math called "High-Low" from Journey of a Substitute: On the board, make a T-chart with a column for "low" and another for "high". Pick a random number from 0-100, and gradually have them narrow it down. For example, if the number is 13 (my lucky number!), and they guess 28, then put 28 in the "high" column, but if they guess 10, it goes in the "low" column until they eventually guess the number.
- Writing: "Round the Room Writing". Have students write each letter of the alphabet down their page, and find something in the room starting with each letter (example: a=answers, b=books, c=clock, etc)
- Try stickers or smarties from The Fine Art of Subbing
- A bag of tricks and essentials to make the day go better
- If a kid is giving you a hard time, be sure to learn their name and use it... a lot!
Hmmmm... I can't seem to remember all of the great ideas since working through the process of setting up a blog. I'll add more to this list as time goes on.
That's all for now.
Not the day to start a substitute teaching blog
Hello web world. As the SOPA/PIPA protest day, this isn't the best day to decide to start a blog. I've run into multiple blocks, so I'll just blog about my subbing experiences here.
I've re-entered the teaching world as an on-call substitute teacher, and it has been fun for the couple of weeks I've tried it. Today I subbed for a science teacher, and it was my first time teaching with no sub plans. It was to be a "movie day", which I would have thought would be much easier than a typical sub job.
Not so. I'm beginning to find that throwing in a movie seems to be a bigger hassle than just teaching a lesson. However, I remember those days when it was much easier for me to come in and teach than to write sub plans.
The day was much easier when I pulled out other science things and told science stories. The students were more attentive and respectful of one another.
All I want to finish with is that I'm glad that I didn't have to pull up any Wikipedia articles for lesson plans today.
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