Monday, December 19, 2011

Christmas Caroling for Cans

Several weeks ago, Becky and I started talking about how we could help others this holiday season. We considered several options---ringing a bell for the Salvation Army's Red Kettle campaign, making gingerbread houses with the children in the homeless shelter near our neighborhood.

But we also wanted to go Christmas Caroling.

Our time was extremely limited, though. We had agreed to plan the annual Christmas dinner at our church, which is no small feat since it generally attracts more than 100 people and it has a lot to live up to, because we've had some pretty amazing Christmas parties. Also, we put an offer in on a house and it was accepted. So we had a lot to do.

Suddenly, we devised a plan that would allow us to go Christmas Caroling and help people in need. We decided to go Caroling for Cans.



Armed with the accordion we borrowed a couple of months ago, we went to several homes to sing songs such as "We Wish You a Merry Christmas" and "Silent Night." We advertised our activity on Facebook and by word of mouth, and won several invitations to come sing in exchange for nonperishable food, which we took to the Salvation Army homeless shelter.

Unfortunately, we barely missed most people who invited us to come sing---apparently, the Christmas season keeps lots of families busy! But we did enjoy visiting a few people to bring the Christmas spirit into their homes while collecting food for people who are more needy than we ever have been.

I think the highlight of our event was singing to an elderly woman in a nursing home / rehabilitation facility. She was having a rough go of it and was truly happy to see us. She and her roommate sang along with most of our songs; her roommate requested "White Christmas," which we gladly sang.

This turned out to be a very fun event, and likely will become a Bryan & Becky tradition for many years to come. (Next year, the event will feature much better planning.) We're even willing to franchise out the idea at no cost---if you want to go Caroling for Cans, we won't charge you a license fee. :)

What ways have you found to help others or spread Christmas cheer? Do you go Christmas Caroling? Do you volunteer? Please share in the comments below.

Sunday, December 4, 2011

Christmas songs to think twice about

I love Christmas music. I grew up without any rules about not listening to Christmas music outside of archaic boundaries of time. My family watched "How the Grinch Stole Christmas" and "Merry Christmas Charlie Brown" throughout the year, and we loved it.

But not all Christmas music was created equal. I wanted to make this list of so-Called Christmas tunes that stand out as odd. Some of them I love. Others, I hate. Let's start with one I hate.

1. Baby, It's Cold Outside


This popular hit is not a Christmas song. "Baby, It's Cold Outside" is not about Christmas---It's about seduction involving alcohol and drugs. ("Hey, what's in this drink?") There's no mention of Baby Jesus, caroling angels, or even Santa Claus and Frosty. It is not a Christmas song---At its very best, it's a winter song, about a season which only the Northern Hemisphere is experiencing on December 25.

I actually like the rhythm and the harmonies, so I hope to someday write a parody so I can enjoy the music without the stupid words. Right now I"m leaning towards "Baby there's mold outside," but I'm sure something better will come along.

In the mean time, I recommend "Let it Snow" as a good, wholesome alternative that carries a romantic theme.

2. I Saw Mommy Kissing Santa Claus


My feelings for this song are on the border between love and hate. It's a fun jingle about the humorous way a kid sees a situation on Christmas Eve. At least, we hope his mother is kissing his father who is wearing a Santa costume. But I can't help but ponder the psychological implications on a kid. What do you want to bet that he grows up and has relationship troubles rooted in his seeing his mother kiss Santa Claus.

I think what really ruins this song for me is the fact that it gets played on the radio way too often in November and December, when some stations believe they must play nothing but Christmas music, which means looping through the same set of songs seemingly several times per day. I can only handle so many replays of the Jackson 5 singing this song before I start to suspect that many of Michael Jackson's troubles began one Christmas Eve when he crept out of bed and spied his mother tickling Santa Claus underneath his beard so snowy white...

3. Santa Claus is Coming To Town


I really like this song. It brings back lots of warm fuzzy memories.

But I have long thought it's really creepy that Santa "sees you when you're sleeping." Why on earth would he watch children in their sleep? Meanwhile, "he knows when you're awake." When you're awake, actively making choices between naughty and nice, he is just aware of it. But as soon as you doze off, he tunes in. Creepy!

By the way, I also thought it was really creepy that Edward Cullen sneaked into Bella's room to watch her while she was sleeping. The fact that Bella didn't get a restraining order at that moment just proves that the difference between a boyfriend and a stalker is that the girl likes the boyfriend, and the stalker isn't a glittery vampire.

Apparently the difference between a kindly elf and a stalker is that the kindly elf takes notes and brings you gifts. And kisses your mom...

4. It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year


I really enjoy hearing this song. It has a catchy tune. But does anyone understand the line "There'll be scary ghost stories and tales of the glories of Christmases long, long ago."

Is there some long lost tradition of telling scary ghost stories at Christmas? That sounds more like a Halloween activity.

The closest I can think of is the visitation of ghosts in Charles Dickens' A Christmas Carole, but that's never struck me as a scary ghost story.

"Tales of the glories of Christmases long, long ago" could refer to people reminiscing on the huge, gift-filled Christmas days back before the recession, or back when they were kids and only had to worry about getting presents, not paying for them. Or perhaps it refers to "Gawain and the Green Knight," a King Arthur tale set at Christmastime. Come to think of it "Gawain and the Green Knight" could qualify as almost a ghost story, too. Perhaps it should make its way into more Christmas traditions!

Becky recently pointed out that this song also talks about "marshmallows for toasting," and neither of us has any memories of roasting marshmallows at Christmas. I fully and wholeheartedly vote for this to become a more common Christmas experience!

What about you: Do your Christmas traditions include ghost stories and marshmallows?

Also, what Christmas songs do you think are crazy, weird, or odd? Tell us in the comments below.

Wednesday, November 9, 2011

Why my husband is fabulous

For those of you who don't know Bryan, it's not too late.  He is a marvelous husband for many reasons.  Let me list a few.

  • He has a way with words... hence the journalist, but I get the benefit of that more than anyone :-)

  • Bryan is a wonderful cook.  The banana bread he makes is better than any I've ever had.

  • He has a wonderful love for everyone, and especially me

  • He works hard at work, but also when he comes home: I love waking up to the smell of fresh pancakes.

  • He comes up with wonderful ideas of things to do:
    - Just this week, when he saw the empty 2 gourd halves of a spaghetti squash I cooked, and decided it would be fun to paint masks and make a birthday video for his sister. It was a bunch of fun, and I wouldn't have ever thought to do it.
    - He knows the best places to hike and go for beautiful walks. I loved going for a walk in the rain with him here in Lynchburg last week when the weather finally started to cool things down.

  • He is ticklish!

  • When no piano player was available for a week at church in Primary, he told the kids that he would bring his guitar in... and he did!  The kids enjoyed it.

  • We went on a jog yesterday morning, and he ran fast, but let me keep up with him.  We ran a little farther than we had planned.

  • He makes sure we have FHE and time to strengthen our relationship with each other and our Creator.

  • He is great at Scrabble, and is nice about winning.


This list could go on for a very long time, but this will have to do for now.  Suffice it to say, my husband is wonderful.

Monday, November 7, 2011

I made another funny (about OWS)

Today I made this comic to add my own humor to the Occupy Wall Street parodies out there.


(This is not a political statement about OWS or Ninja Turtles. I have no idea how Splinter really feels.)

Sunday, November 6, 2011

A super busy October

October was one of the busiest months in my memory. I've been too busy doing things to blog about them! (That's the way it should be.)

But it's been a really good month. So here's a quick description, not in chronological order---

1. Halloween Weekend and Day

We are lucky to live just about an hour away from Becky's sister, brother-in-law, and their kids. The last weekend of the month, they invited a lot of family over for a day of festivities.

The day was pretty cool. It started when Becky hit a growth spurt and became much taller than I:



I've always looked up to her, but this helped.

Actually, she wasn't taller than me, but she was on drywall stilts:



 

Her dad brought them up from South Carolina so Travis (Becky's brother-in-law) could use them for his Uncle Sam



Halloween costume. Everyone trying them on. I don't have any pictures of me when I tried them (although I know pictures were taken, I don't have a copy) but you wouldn't want to see those pictures, anyway. Whereas Becky was walking confidently in a jiffy, I was wobbling around the whole time.

Becky's stepbrother, Cameron, put the stilts on at their highest length, three feet. He's tall enough before the stilts. But he did a pretty good job walking around in them.

After playing with the stilts for a while, we went to a corn maze. Unfortunately, it wasn't much of a corn maze. :-( It was basically a corn field with a path through it, but there weren't any side paths where you could get lost.

However, the pumpkin patch games at the end made the experience worth every dollar we spent and all the time we spent.

The pumpkin patch had a steep hill on the far end of it. The hill had these two slides---basically, long sheets of plastic heading down the hill---that were TONS of fun. Lots of us guys were diving onto them, spinning around as we slid down, etc. There was basically a mud pile at the bottom, so my clothes got pretty dirty. It was lots of fun and was great exercise.

Then, Halloween came. Becky, a science teacher, dressed up as Miss Frizzle (from Magic Schoolbus) and I dressed as Bill Nye the Science Guy. (I bet you didn't know that these two science peeps eventually fell in love and got married, did you?



In addition to going to work in our costumes (yes, we're lucky enough to work at the same place, just different offices) we went out to eat at Arby's and then walked around the mall as people enjoyed our costumes. It was a lot of fun!

2. Homecoming and Homecoming

The month opened with homecoming at the college where I work. It was the college's first homecoming. Since I work in the office that planned and organized the event, I worked 15 hours that day. I was dead tired when I got home. (Fortunately for me, my boss bought pizza.)

Two weekends later, Becky and I drove to Buena Vista for homecoming at my alma mater, Southern Virginia University. I LOVE that school, and I always love homecoming.

SVU's choirs and orchestra gave a remarkable concert. I'm always impressed by what those choirs can do. The highlight, for me, was hearing the beautiful song "How Can I Keep From Singing." (You can hear Enya sing it on YouTube.)

Saturday was filled with cornhole, a wonderful faculty lecture, volunteering at the alumni house,  food, and fun. All in all, it was a very wonderful day.

3. Conference and Conference.

October holds a special significance for members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints because that is one month when we have General Conference, a worldwide event where we gather around TVs, computers, radios, and other devices to hear a broadcast where prophets and apostles testify of Jesus Christ and teach us how we can live better Christian lives. This was the other big activity the first weekend of the month.

I think my favorite talk in the whole conference was "Providing in the Lord's Way" by Dieter F. Uchtdorf. It was a powerful reminder that the Savior's gospel implores us to alleviate the suffering of other people. Elder Uchtdorf gave a good guide to help us know how we can go about using our own limited resources to help others.

The second weekend of the month, we had Stake Conference, which is like General Conference but on a local level, involving all the church members in a geographical region. This conference was held in Lexington, Virginia. The message that stuck out the most to me was the importance of honesty, which our Stake President touched on with great emphasis. He quoted Billy Joel ("Honesty is a lonely word") which I did not expect.

4. Work and Work

My day job kept me busy throughout the month and had me working a good number of extra hours. But I also had my side job (where I do some freelance writing and web design) take off a little. I went from zero projects to three very quickly. So my evenings have generally consisted of sitting down at my laptop and tap, tap, tapping on my keyboard.

That's just the beginning...

A lot of other things happened in October.

Becky helped prepare a "Family Values Award" dinner in Buena Vista. She seemed to do a really good job and was in charge of the decorations.

Becky started looking into the possibility of making curtains at home (and we'll probably buy a nice sewing machine soon.)

We spent three weeks suffering from a miserable cold.

All in all, October was a really fun month!

Another video about a faculty recital

I recently created another video about a recital... It looks like I'll get to continue making videos like this. Next up, I'll be creating a video to promote the traditional Christmas Vespers concert at the college.

In this video, I experimented a little with the sound recording by not attaching any external microphone to the digital camcorder. I think it turned out well, although there is one point in the video where you can hear a clicking sound as I raise the volume of the recording.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ga5EolxTq5E[/youtube]

I love the power of beautiful music.

Saturday, October 22, 2011

Taxes, charity, and religious freedom

Elder Dallin H. Oaks, a leader in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, recently testified before a Congressional committee about the importance of the charitable deduction on taxes.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=22XHmK2bvkM&feature=player_embedded[/youtube]

His message focuses on the important contributions made by churches and other nonprofit agencies, which are funded by donations that are at least partially prompted or facilitated by the tax deduction.

However, he hits on a really important point around 4:30 into the video, when he talks about how some people believe the charitable deduction is effectually a tax expenditure, "because tax revenues are reduced by the benefit granted. in other words, because the gov't could have denied the charitable deduction, there is a government expenditure in its granting the deduction and foregoing the revenue."

He puts that idea into context this way:
By that reasoning, the personal income we think is ours is really the government's because of its choice not to take it away by taxation. that is certianly an attitude not shared by most Americans.

That hit home with me because I have long believed that taxation is a subtle way of impending on religious freedom.

When people talk about the erosion of religious freedoms, they usually talk about Christmas trees being banned from city hall and a lack of teacher-led prayer in public schools. But neither of those things prevents me from living my religion.

But what if taxes sometime became so high that they impended my ability to participate in religious activity?

For example, some churches (including mine) teach the principle of tithing, which states that you should give one tenth of your income for God's purposes. A friend of mine who served a mission in a European country a few decades ago told me that people would ask him whether they should pay their tithing on their income before or after taxes---because after taxes, they did not have 10 percent of their pre-tax income left over.

What if taxes became so high that people could not afford mission trips? What if people could not afford to build churches, or even to travel to a church that is more than a few blocks from their home?

Of course, this is not the case now in America. But if taxes continue to rise, and if tax deductions for charitable donations are lowered or stricken, that would significantly change people's ability to participate in faithful religious activity.

Thursday, October 20, 2011

Why I'm not buying an iPad (yet)

As much as I would love to hold an iPad in my arms and gaze at its awe-inspiring coolness, I just cannot justify it.

I don't mean to judge people who do own iPads, and I don't pretend to preach that other people should make this same choice. But it's a decision I want to share for anyone who is debating the purchase.

The first Apple product I owned was an iPhone 3Gs to which I upgraded in 2010. It was my second smartphone.



An iPhone is fairly expensive, and the cost of the monthly data plan does add up. But it's an amazing piece of technology that has really made my life easier. It's easy to use, it rarely malfunctions, and it's just plain likeable.

When the really big iPhone called the iPad was released, I knew I would want one. Every time I have held a friend's iPad or used one in the store or read a review, I've only wanted it more.

Then why have I not gone out and bought one?

At first, it was a question of money. I'm a pretty frugal guy, and I couldn't justify spending $500 on a gadget while I still had student loans and a car payment. So when I got my tax return this year, I pushed aside every particle of my being that said "buy an iPad" and paid off debt instead.

By the time I paid off my debt this summer, I had reached a few other conclusions.

  1. I can't name one significant thing that I could do with an iPad that I could not do with the digital devices I already have. Between my laptop and my phone, I can type, send e-mails, text messages, browse the Internet, play games, and participate in online video chats. Yes, it would be nice to have the large touchscreen interface, and the convenience of the tablet design, but that's not enough to justify the $500+ expense.

  2. You can do a lot with $500. You can invest it and watch it become tens of thousands of dollars over the years. You can buy food for a lot of hungry people. You can pay your rent, or at least a significant portion of it. You can send it to me.

  3. Eventually, today's iPad will be obsolete. There will be something better, whether it's a future iPad (or another device) made by Apple, or another Tablet computer that performs flawlessly.


With these three reasons in mind, I finally decided to completely ignore the idea of buying an iPad until it's time to replace my laptop. That will probably be a few years from now.

By then, who knows where technology will have taken the world of mobile and tablet computing?

It wouldn't surprise me if there is a version of a tablet computer that is thin, lightweight, touchscreen, and can function just like an iPad, but can also functions just like a laptop when you connect it to a keyboard, mouse, printer, and second monitor. And it might have other awesome features, like teleportation. (I'm not holding my breath on that last one, though.)

So I'm saving the $500, letting it earn interest, until it makes absolute sense and I need another mobile computing solution.

Again, I do not judge or look down on those who have chosen to go ahead and buy an iPad. But I hope these thoughts are helpful for people who are thinking about buying one---or people who are thinking about buying any expensive item that they might not actually need.

Playing piano standing up?

My job title is "writer," but I'm fortunate to have many opportunities beyond just putting words on paper.

Recently, I got to interview this music professor and create a video about her upcoming concert at the college.

A little more than halfway through the video, while she is talking about the highlights of her concert, she stands in the middle of playing a sonata to stick her hand inside the piano and alter the sound. Check it out!
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NN1LwVf34x0[/youtube]

It was fun to shoot the footage as she played some really stellar piano music. I also enjoyed forging the footage and the interview together into a nice, short video.

Tuesday, October 11, 2011

Debunk the Junk: eliminating junk food in public schools

[Intro: I wrote this a couple of days ago during a practice test for the Virginia teachers literacy assessment under a time crunch. It is supposed to address the issue of sodas and junk food at snack machines in schools. The original assignment is on page 38 of www.va.nesinc.com/PDFs/VCLA_Writing_PracticeTest.pdf]

When was the last time you had a headache from eating too much junk food? The fourth of July? The Superbowl? Christmas? It is a common thing when we know we should not eat certain things at holidays, but we see those things on the table, want them, eat them, and then may regret the choice. How would the hours following such events be different if those unhealthy foods were replaced with healthy options?

This is much like the situation facing many of the public schools in our country. When a student gets hungry between classes, there are usually plenty of highly processed foods available, but very few healthy options. Replacing traditional snack machines with healthier options can give students longer attention spans, better habits, and healthier futures.

As an educator, I noticed a significant difference in my students’ behavior when sodas in the school’s drink machines were replaced by flavored waters. There was an overnight change in attention, respect, and involvement. Several hyper students were able to concentrate for longer periods of time. I was surprised to see such a dramatic difference from something that seemed insignificant to me.

Food selection habits, whether good or bad, will follow students throughout the rest of their lives. I have been disheartened to learn that many students nationwide to not have healthy food options at home. This makes the need for offering less-processed foods in school more important. Students learn things best when taught by example. A school that offers soda, chips, and sugar-covered donuts in its vending machines sets a much worse example than a school with flavored water, juices, peanut-butter crackers and fruit. Those students must become more used to healthier selections.

Each student who becomes used to healthier food selections will be more likely to lead a healthy and brighter future. The years that a child is in elementary and secondary schools are crucial years in brain development. This time is also critical in limiting processed sugars and starches to lower the risk of diabetes, obesity, and other complications associated with unhealthy snack choices.

Each school that replaces soda and highly processed foods with healthier drinks and snacks will improve academic performance, instill lasting food-selection habits in students, and offer each child a healthier and brighter future. This should be of critical importance to educators, parents, and taxpayers as we work together for a better world. In doing so, students can avoid that “post-Christmas dinner sugar crash” each day during fourth period.

[Please share your thoughts about snack foods in schools' snack machines below]

Monday, October 10, 2011

A Latter-day Saint by any other name...

What's in a name? that which we call a rose

By any other name would smell as sweet;

"I can't stop reading definitions---I think I have an addictionary!" I once quipped. And while I don't quite have an addictionary, today I spent some time perusing definitions.

The words I was looking up? Cult and Christian.

Ordinarily, it wouldn't have been news that an evangelical pastor like Robert Jeffress stated that Mormons are a cult, or are not Christian. Evangelicals have said that about us for years. But this time it made bigger headlines because he stated it about  a Mormon who happens to be a front-runner for the Republican presidential nomination.

But his statement revives a concern I have always had about those words. Often, we use one meaning of the words to justify labeling a group with such terms, even though the application of the label has a different connotation. It's like labeling spaghetti as cheesy when someone has only heard that phrase in connection with cheesy jokes. It conveys an untrue idea.

So what exactly is a cult? Here's what you see when you type "define:cult" into Google:
1. A system of religious veneration and devotion directed toward a particular figure or object.

2. A relatively small group of people having religious beliefs or practices regarded by others as strange or sinister.

Here is what Dictionary.com has to offer:

1. a particular system of religious worship, especially with reference to its rites and ceremonies.

2. an instance of great veneration of a person, ideal, or thing, especially as manifested by a body of admirers: the physical fitness cult.

3. the object of such devotion.

4. a group or sect bound together by veneration of the same thing, person, ideal, etc.

5. Sociology. a group having a sacred ideology and a set of rites centering around their sacred symbols

With the exception of the phrase "regarded by others as strange or sinister," none of these sound half bad. A system of religious worship with rites and ceremonies? Religious veneration towards a person, object, ideal? Sounds every religion, including the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and Jeffress' church, could meet that definition.

But what does cult mean when you hear it? It has a negative connotation. It invokes images of weirdos claiming to be Christ and forcing people to drink Kool-Aid in their underwear. Latter-day Saints, or Mormons, find the cult label offensive because they know this is how their neighbors interpret the word.

To give Jeffress credit, in an interview with CNN's Anderson Cooper, he tries explaining that he means Mormons are a cult in the theological sense, not in the sociological sense. He could have explained that better by saying "I'm not saying your Mormon neighbor worships the devil and wants to summon alien spaceships to abduct your children. I'm saying they believe differently than I do."

He also says that Hindus, Muslims and Buddhists are cults. Why? Because they are not Christians.

Which brings me to another question. What is a Christian? Here is Google's answer:


A person who has received Christian baptism or is a believer in Jesus Christ and his teachings.

Here are Dictionary.com's thoughts on Christian as an adjective:




1. of, pertaining to, or derived from Jesus Christ or His teachings: a Christian faith.

2. of, pertaining to, believing in, or belonging to the religion based on the teachings of Jesus Christ

3. of or pertaining to Christians

4. exhibiting a spirit proper to a follower of Jesus Christ; Christlike

5. decent; respectable


and as a noun:


7. a person who believes in Jesus Christ; adherent of Christianity.

8. a person who exemplifies in his or her life the teachings of Christ

9. a member of any of certain Protestant churches, as the Disciples of Christ and the Plymouth Brethren.


Most of these definitions focus on an affinity to Jesus Christ and His teachings.

The only definition here that Mormons do not meet is number nine, which narrowly limits Christianity to Protestantism. But when you use this definition to classify Mormons as non-Christians, anyone who hears you say that will hear you say that Mormons have nothing to do with Jesus Christ.

Many people point out that Mormons differ from traditional or historic Christianity. This phrase might also be correct, but "Mormons differ from historic Christianity" doesn't do nearly as much to convince your congregation (and therefore paycheck providers) that they shouldn't investigate this other church.

But what exactly is "historic Christianity?" At one time, Catholicism was "historic Christianity," and then Protestant Churches broke off of that church, and more Protestant churches broke off of them. And they all trace most of their beliefs not only to the Bible, but to creeds that were written hundreds of years after Jesus died on the cross.

Meanwhile, Mormons claim their religion is a restoration of historic Christianity---Christianity the way Jesus taught it himself in Jerusalem before his crucifixion and resurrection, and in other parts of the world after those events.

Jeffress pointed out that many people claim to be Christians but are not. And he is right. So who judges the difference? How do we know whether someone really is a Christian?

Jesus said, "By their fruits ye shall know them." So it seems to me that we should look at someone's fruits.

I'm not suggesting you go look in someone's orchard to decide whether they are Christians, but for Mormons, that might be a good place to start. The church owns orchards and farms that it uses to supply food for people who are poor. Jesus often talked about the importance of helping the poor. Mormons take that to heart.

Another thing to consider is the centrality of Christ to Mormon doctrine. This word cloud shows that the most common words in a recent worldwide conference of the church were things like "Jesus," "God," "Church," "Holy," "Father," and "Lord."

Then there are quotes from The Book of Mormon, like these:
And now, my beloved brethren, I would that ye should come unto Christ, who is the Holy One of Israel, and partake of his salvation, and the power of his redemption. Yea, come unto him, and offer your whole souls as an offering unto him, and continue in fasting and praying, and endure to the end; and as the Lord liveth ye will be saved.Omni 1:26

And he shall be called Jesus Christ, the Son of God, the Father of heaven and earth, the Creator of all things from the beginning...Mosiah 3:8

I glory in plainness; I glory in truth; I glory in my Jesus, for he hath redeemed my soul from hell.2 Nephi 33:6

I have named just a few fruits of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. There are many more good, Christian things that have come about because of this church, The Book of Mormon, and its teachings. We look to Jesus as the head of our church. We pray in his name. We hope to live the kind of life he wants to live.

Some Christians object to our belief that we have a modern prophet, but consider the things that prophet asks us to do: stay away from pornography, treat women with respect, pray to God, read the scriptures, walk out of filthy movies, volunteer time and money to help other people, raise good children, and be good citizens. But he doesn't tell us which candidates deserve our votes. (That would be rather cult-like.)

We probably always will have people who call us a cult, and they will always be incorrect except in the way that all religions can be called cults. But even then, we will go on doing good works, testifying of Christ, and trying to make the world a better place.

To paraphrase Juliet,
What's in a name? that which we call a rose
 By any other name would smell as sweet;
 So Mormons would, were they not Christians call'd,
 Retain that dear Christianity which they have
 Without that title.

Correction: In the original version of this post, I wrote that Jeffres called Catholicism a cult. My wife pointed out that I was incorrect. In the interview, he actually said that Catholicism's basic teachings run counter to the New Testament.

Saturday, October 8, 2011

The war between science, religion doesn't have to be faught

Recently, Becky and I sat and listened to respected evolutionary scientist Richard Dawkins talk about the wonders of science. Unfortunately, the event was just as much an atheist revival as it was a science lecture.

Rather than leave with a greater love and appreciation for science, I left feeling more angry than I have ever felt toward a person with a British accent.

How Dawkins got us all riled up


Even before Dawkins stepped up to the stage, the event took a vitriolic tone toward religion. Sean Faircloth, an employee of Dawkins' foundation that seeks to rid religion from public life, spoke about his book Rise of the Theocrats: How the Religious Right is harming us all, and what we can do to stop them. His presentation was chock full of slides where he showed the most embarrassing or goofy picture he could find of a Christian, followed by a really nice picture of an atheist.

He verbally attacked Liberty University for being devoted to its religious and conservative political values, and for receiving millions of dollars in federal aid. (He failed to mention that the aid is actually federal Pell Grant money that only goes to LU because students chose to enroll there.)

I could feel my blood start to boil. Even though I disagree with the stances of some of the Christian politicians he berated, and even though I am one person against whom LU discriminates (job applicants there must sign a statement that essentially denies my belief in The Book of Mormon), I wholeheartedly support people's right to choose their religious beliefs, live according to them, and even apply them to their political stances.

Additionally, I felt angry because I saw the world Faircloth proposes. In his ideal secular world, people who hold and live by religious principles not backed up by a secular interpretation of science would find themselves discriminated against in various ways as they search for jobs in medicine, education or government.

Take his ideas far enough, and a person's rights to follow some religious principles in raising their children could be threatened.

The government would fund anti-religion indoctrination while religious values are shoved to the side.

Do open-minded people call Christians stupid idiots?


Then Dawkins took to the stage and talked about his new book, The Magic of Reality: How we know what is really true. It's a children's book that walks through various questions about our universe---ranging from rainbows and evolution to seasons and aliens---discussing myths and science.

He showed off the book's illustrations and an accompanying iPad app that lets users learn about science interactively. It was a fascinating presentation.

But it really bothered me that during his talk, and during a question and answer session that followed, Dawkins repeatedly referred to religious people (particularly young-earth creationists) as "stupid" and called them "idiots." How open minded of him!

He acted very pleased when people announced to him that his words have helped them become atheists. I realized that this was not so much about promoting science as it was about mocking religion and promoting atheism.

It was, indeed, an atheist revival. After Dawkins preached for a while, I wondered when he would pass the collection plate and ask people to come forth and profess atheism to be saved.

Religion and science can get along


Too often, people on either side of the aisle act as though science and religion must be at war. Atheist scientists focus a lot of research and energy explaining why faith is foolish and unnecessary, and act as though anyone who accepts something without full scientific evidence is stupid. (Meanwhile, they exercise a lot of faith in the conclusions they have reached through science.)

Then, there are religious people who consistently ignore and berate science, as though scientific inquiry and discovery were itself the anti-Christ. They spend a lot of time and money explaining away science.

I feel it is unwise for people on both sides of the argument to view science as the anti-religion and religion as the anti-science. The two can coexist, and they do so beautifully.

Latter-day Saint scriptures emphasize the importance of learning, including learning about science. We are commanded to learn:
Of things both in heaven and in the earth, and under the earth; things which have been, things which are, things which must shortly come to pass... (Doctrine & Covenants 88:79)

I take that as a commandment to study astronomy, geology, and the past, current, and future state of the world. Science gives us those tools.

Becky attended Brigham Young University, which is owned and sponsored by our church. There, she learned a lot about evolution. The school had many speakers come and speak about the science of evolution.

This article on The Daily Beast elaborates on the relationship of Mormonism and science. It quotes Brigham Young, a Latter-day Saint prophet in the 1800s:
“In these respects we differ from the Christian world, for our religion will not clash with or contradict the facts of science in any particular… whether the Lord found the earth empty and void, whether he made it out of nothing or out of the rude elements; or whether he made it in six days or as many millions of years.”

Evolution has been hotly debated in the Mormon community. Some church leaders and members have concluded that it is heretical. But the church has had no doctrinal statement on the topic, other than in 1931 when this statement was released:
“Leave geology, biology, archeology, and anthropology, no one of which has to do with the salvation of the soul of mankind, to scientific research, while we magnify our calling in the realm of the Church.”

This is consistent with scripture. Jesus says several times in the Bible and the Book of Mormon that his doctrine is, essentially, that God sent Jesus, his only begotten son, to sacrifice himself for the sins of the world, and whoever has faith, repents, is baptized, and receives the gift of the Holy Ghost will be cleansed from sin and have eternal life.
And whoso shall declare more or less than this, and establish it for my doctrine, the same cometh of evil, and is not built upon my rock; but he buildeth upon a sandy foundation, and the gates of hell stand open to receive such when the floods come and the winds beat upon them. (3 Nephi 11:40, Book of Mormon)

So it is not the job of the church to tell us the exact processes that God used to make the earth---only that He made it and that He has this plan of salvation for us. Apparently, believing science does not disqualify one from salvation, unless science specifically claims that God does not exist.

Becky and I both believe that science is amazing. Of course, we both are devoted to faith and religion, too.

And we believe science and religion can co-exist quite comfortably---in fact, they complement each other and give each other richer meaning.

While we differ slightly in our opinions about various science-and-religion topics, we both agree that a study and belief in evolution does not require a disbelief in God, Jesus Christ, or scripture. We both believe science can open our understanding about how God works, how He made the world, and how we can become more like him, as he commanded.

When science becomes a religion...


Science only has to cast out religion when science becomes a religion...when it becomes atheism.

Dawkins said the other night that he doesn't believe atheism is a religion. I disagree, because atheism is a belief about God (that He doesn't exist) and an associated world view.

Dawkins said that some people ask him what it would take for him to believe in God. He said that he sometimes things a booming voice out of the clouds shouting, "I exist!" might do the trick. But even then, he said, that could be a hallucination, so he is not sure he would even believe that.

In other words, he would explain away any reason for believing that is presented to him.

One argument used against religion is the idea of the "invisible gardener," in which people continually redefine God whenever facts seem to counter their beliefs about Him. Some philosophers say that you don't reasonably believe in God if you cannot also name the circumstances in which you would stop believing in Him.

In the case of Richard Dawkins, the lack of God has become the invisible gardener, because he cannot name the circumstances in which he would stop believing atheism. I believe atheism would require just as much faith as belief in God.

Science doesn't have to be atheism. It can be the process by which we learn more about our world, while religion is the process by which we learn more about God.

I hope more people on each side will learn that the two are not mutually exclusive.

Saturday, September 24, 2011

Service and a dough boy

Today, thousands of people ran 10 miles in Lynchburg. My wife and I did not. Our excuse? We had a service project to attend. (Notice I said that's the excuse. The reason is that I wouldn't run 10 miles even if you promised there were 100 free doughnuts at the end.)

But in all actuality, we did have some service to do. Our church organized numerous service projects throughout the state of Virginia as part of a commemoration of the 75th anniversary of the founding of our welfare program. Becky and I were asked to organize one project.


We organized a project to improve the appearance of Miller Park in Lynchburg and the Salvation Army homeless shelter and other facilities next to the park. This morning, we and about 25 other members of our church met to get the job done.

Some of the group stayed in Miller Park to pick up litter, and also gather large sticks and small tree branches that had fallen on the ground.

The rest of the group went to the Salvation Army facilities and tamed some severely overgrown gardens and flower beds. Two teenage girls went to the homeless shelter and made sandwiches that would then be served to the residents and other people in need.

The final result: The park and the homeless shelter and the Salvation Army's daycare facility look a lot nicer now. We all felt great to be working together for this good cause.

After Becky and I got home from the service project, we walked back to the Miller Park area to look at a house that is for sale. On the way there, we stopped at a yard sale and Becky found some great blouses and pants that she wanted. We asked the yardsalers to hold on to them for us so we could buy them on the way back.

When we returned to the yard sale, the owners were putting everything away. We paid $4 for the two blouses and three pairs of pants... And then the woman who was having the yard sale said, "Do you want this whole box of clothes? We'll give it to you for free, because we're just throwing them away."

They not only gave us the entire box of women's clothes, but they gave us an awesome book bag:

I knew I wanted the book bag the moment I saw the Pillsbury Dough Boy on it. But then we discovered the slippers, the hat, the pencil box (with a watch inside it) and a necktie. This was quite the find! I can't wait to start using the book bag for something --- I'm not sure how I'll use it, but I'll love it.

Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Facebook moved my cheese

I'm going to study Facebook's new features and see if there is a way to filter out any and every status update expressing fury about the latest Facebook changes. My news feed would be rather sparse.

"I'm appalled that the free service that I am in no way obligated to use keeps making changes that mildly inconvenience me," says this e-card.
Not that I like all the changes Facebook made. I liked the old layout that let you choose whether to view the most recent updates or the most popular updates. The new layout requires you to click "Update Status" just to access the box in which you can type your status, adding a step that should not be necessary. There are other improvements that can be made, and probably will be made in time.

But every time I read complaints about new Facebook layouts and features, I can't help but think about:

  • people who don't have much food to eat or clean water to drink

  • people who just live with the pain of migraine headaches and abscess teeth because they don't have access to medical care or even basic medicines

  • people who have never had a refrigerator, or a microwave, or an air conditioner

  • people who are suffering from incurable diseases.


Isn't it great that so many things are going well in our lives that we find it worthwhile to complain about new layouts on a website that isn't even essential to life?

Life is change. Sure, sometimes someone moves our cheese. Sometimes, Facebook moves our cheese. Those who shrug off the changes and go along with the day will accomplish more than those who constantly complain about Facebook.

And if Facebook's changes lived up to their potential and caused us, in droves, to spend less time with the social network, and more time with our families, with our neighbors, or in exercise, we all would end up happier people, too.

Sunday, September 18, 2011

Nearer to Thee

Few hymns move my heart like "Nearer My God to Thee." I was about 18 the first time I heard it, and I was mesmerized by the beautiful melody and the sincere words. It seemed to express the prayer of my heart.
E'en though it be a cross that raiseth me

Still all my song shall be nearer my God to thee.

At that time, I was learning to play simplified songs on piano, plunking out tunes with my right hand and playing chords with my left. So I quickly learned how to play "Nearer My God to Thee," which quickly became one of my favorite songs to play on piano. (It's now one of my favorite hymns to play on guitar, too.) I have played it many times as my heart plead with Heavenly Father to help me feel nearer to him.

The hymn means more to me when considering the back story behind it. It is based on the experience of Jacob, later named Israel, who was traveling through the desert.

"And he lighted upon a certain place, and tarried there all night, because the sun was set; and he took of the stones of that place, and put them for his pillows, and lay down in that place to sleep."
Though like the wonderer, the sun gone down,

darkness be over me, my rest a stone.

Yet in my dreams I'd be nearer my God to thee

"And he dreamed, and behold a ladder set up on the earth, and the top of it reached to heaven: and behold the angels of God ascending and descending on it."
There let the way appear, steps unto heav'n

All that thou sendest me in mercy giv'n

Angels to beckon me nearer my God to thee

"And Jacob rose up early in the morning, and took the stone that he had put for his pillows, and set it up for a pillar, and poured oil upon the top of it.

"And he called the name of that place Beth-el."
Then with my waking thought, bright with thy praise

out of my stony griefs, Beth-el I'll raise

So by my woes to be nearer my God to thee

The last verse of the song does not actually reference any part of Jacob's story, but it adds a beautiful, solemn thought of praise:
Or if on joyful wing, cleaving the sky,

sun, moon, and stars forgot, upward I fly

Still all my song shall be nearer my God to thee

Traveling through the desert with no shelter is (and was) a dangerous thing. In such a situation, it is a possibility that rather than wake to praise God, a person could find himself flying toward heaven, the victim of bandits, scorpions, or any number of dangers in the desert. But this drives home the point that the speaker of this song will long to be and seek to be nearer to God no matter what the situation—whether he is sleeping with stones for his pillows, whether he is seeing God and angels in a dream, or whether he dies.

Today I played this hymn on piano to accompany Tom Lloyd, a friend of mine who is leaving to serve a two-year mission for our church. In all, the rendition went really well. My choppy hands made a few mistakes on piano, and Tom choked up with emotion, but he belted the words powerfully and beautifully. Then, he spoke about the hymn and how it symbolizes a man going through trials.

"Every trial we go through brings us closer to the Lord," Tom said.

And I agree.
Still all my song shall be

Nearer my God to thee

Nearer my God to thee, Nearer to thee.

 

Sunday, February 27, 2011

House hunting in the rain

This morning we were surprised by weather in the 50's! We're getting some beautiful rain, and look forward to house hunting this evening.